The Complete Guide to Wedding Gift Giving

The Complete Guide to Wedding Gift Giving

Lots of gifts will exchange hands when there is a wedding! Whether you are the bride and groom, a member of the bridal party, or simply a guest, you can expect to give at least one or two gifts after an engagement is announced. Sort it all out with this complete guide to wedding gift giving.

Bridesmaids and Groomsmen. Give: A wedding gift to the bride and groom. Bridesmaids will also likely be invited to a bridal shower, meaning they will also give a shower gift. Groomsmen do not usually give a gift to the groom other than their wedding present to the couple, although they will probably chip in to take him out on the town for the bachelor party.

Get: It is customary for the bride and groom to give bridesmaid gift and groomsmen gifts to their attendants. Bridesmaid jewelry is the most traditional gift for the ladies, and engraved silver items like cuff links or pocketknives are tops for the guys. The bridal party will also receive a wedding favor at the reception.

Flower Girls and Ring Bearers: Give: Nothing. Surely no one expects a wedding present from a child? If the flower girl is invited to the bridal shower, she can sign her name to the card on her mom’s present to the bride.

Get: The flower girl and ring bearer should be given small gifts of appreciation by the bride and groom. Flower girl jewelry is a favorite present for little girls. The flower girl jewelry can coordinate with the bridesmaid jewelry gifts, or be something totally different. The ring bearer should also receive a gift, such as a small silver piggy bank.

The Bride and Groom: Give: Gifts to the bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, and ring bearer. The couple may decide to give one another wedding gifts, although sometimes they decide that the wedding rings are gift enough. It is also nice for the bride and groom to give a gift to their parents, as appreciation for throwing their wedding, and just for helping to raise them. Gifts for wedding vendors like the bridal salon owner or caterer are optional, but thoughtful if the person has really gone all out to make the wedding a grand success. The bride should also give a small gift of thanks to the hosts of any parties in her honor, including the bridal shower. And don’t forget the wedding favors for all the guests!

Get: Lots! Wedding gifts from the guests and their parents, bridal shower gifts, and possibly presents from one another. It should be noted that it is not expected that guests will give engagement party gifts to the happy couple.

Wedding Guests: Give: A wedding gift to the happy couple. If invited to a bridal shower, there will also be a shower gift (if the shower is attended).

Get: A wedding favor. And hopefully a great time at the wedding!

Parents of the Bride and Groom: Give: In many cases, the wedding itself is a gift from one or both families. It is also customary for the parents to give their children a separate wedding gift. This can range from a house to the honeymoon to a pretty picture frame engraved with the wedding date, depending on how much cash is left over after paying for the wedding expenses.

Get: The bride and groom will often decide to give a gift to their parents, usually on the weekend of the wedding. Popular gifts include wedding jewelry for the moms, gift certificates to a great restaurant, or a bottle of wine with a heartfelt note.

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Wedding Gift Giving – FAQ and Answers Too

Wedding Gift Giving – FAQ and Answers Too

Over time, our visitors, both Invitees and Marrying Couples, have asked many questions regarding Wedding Gift Giving

This article is formatted as Questions and answers. A-wedding Day hopes that they will help answer some of your questions. If not, please feel free to Email us your questions.

Please note that Q stands for Question S stands for Statement A stands for Answer

WEDDING GUESTS ASK:

Q. I am invited to a wedding. The invitation arrived and with it a wish list and store registries where the bride and groom entered the items they want to receive.

S. I do not plan to attend. Do I need to send a gift? A. You do not have to, but it is a nice gesture to send a gift whether or not you plan to attend.

Q. Do I have to give an item chosen by the bride and groom? A. No! While it is nice to help the couple acquire items they have chosen, a unique gift can be just as and even more welcomed.

Q. Do I have to purchase from one of their bridal registries? A. No. You may shop anywhere, though the bridal registries will inform you of which items have already been purchased.

Q. Can I purchase a gift for the wedding itself rather than for the future? A. Absolutely! Providing the bride and groom receive it in time for the wedding. In fact it is a good idea because just about any gift used at the wedding will become a cherished keepsake.

Q. What would make a memorable gift for the wedding? Any item personalized with the bride and groom’s first names and wedding date such as: Toasting Flutes, Cake Servers, Unity Candles, etc… One, a few or even an entire collection of Wedding Accessories such as: Toasting Flutes, Cake Servers, Unity Candles, Guest Books and matching pens, Garters, Ring Bearer Pillow, hankies, caketops etc… But DO NOT make it a surprise gift. Consult with the bride and groom to assure that they do not have these items yet. If not, find out if they plan a theme wedding and purchase accordingly or better yet, let THEM CHOOSE the items.

Q. Can I shop on line for wedding gifts? A.Sure! Actually this is the easiest way to engage the bride and groom, near or far, should you need their input in choosing a gift for the wedding. Shopping online is your most convenient way to acquire unique gifts which may not be available in stores. Ideas: Personalized wedding gifts, personalized candles, etc… When you shop on line, a click of the mouse or a phone call from your home or office, allows you to purchase, gift wrap, enclose a personalized gift card and ship a gift to directly to the couple.

Q. Should I bring my gift to the wedding site? A. Preferably not! Most wedding sites do not provide security. Thus, Gifts can easily be damaged or misplaced or, sad to say taken. The bride and groom are much too busy and excited to worry about gathering up gifts. Thus, some gifts could easily be left behind.

Q. How do I make sure that the bride and groom receive my gift? A. Send the gift to the Bride’s address, grooms address or the address on the RSVP envelope that came with the wedding invitation.

BRIDES AND GROOMS ASK:

S. We plan to give each other gifts at the wedding. What is the best time to do so? A. Gift exchange between brides and grooms has become rather popular. The best time for brides and grooms to exchange gifts is at the ceremony, as soon as they are no longer bride and groom. That is immediately following the officiant presenting the new Mr. and Mrs. but after lighting the Unity Candle.

Q. What kinds of gifts will be appropriate? A. Give each other gifts that are keepsakes. Personalized gifts and jewelry top the list.

S. As a blending family, we plan to acknowledge our kids as part of our union. We would like to give them special gifts at the wedding.

Q. What is the best time to do so? A. This is a wonderful way to welcome your kids into the new family creatid by your union. The best time for you to give your kids a gift is at the ceremony immediately following your gift exchange, or immediately after your rings exchange and vows. This is especially appropriate if you plan to include the kids in your vows and, if age appropriate, in lighting the Unity Candle.

Q. What kinds of gifts will be appropriate? Here a piece of jewelry such as the family unity jewelry (pendants, rings, lapel pins/tie clips etc…) will be a perfect gift.

Q. Are there specific etiquetes regarding giving gifts to our wedding party and family? S. We need some ideas of gifts of appreciation to our bestman, maid of honor, bridesmaids, ushers, groomsmen, parents grand parents flower girl and ring bearer (boy). A. Gifts, their cost and whether you should give everyone the same gift is at your discresion. But since you asked, we’ll provide you with some ideas.

IDEAS for GIFTS for WOMEN

Gifts for Maid of Honor, Bridesmaids, mothers, grandmothers

A. The most appropriate gifts will be keepsake mementos. The mothers and the maid of Honor generally receive gift of greater value than the bridesmaids, but this is not mandatory. Gifts personalized with either their names, title (mother, maid of honor etc…), or bride and groom’s name and wedding date serve as both thank you and keepsake mementos. Ideas: Personalized candles, frames or photo albums to later add your wedding pictures to, jewelry, some part of their wedding attire, toasting flutes or mugs, jewelry boxes, key chains, clocks, make-up kits, crystal or silver vases, crystal bowls, collectibles etc… Pampering gifts Ideas:bath oils, gift baskets, candles, a day at a spa etc…

IDEAS for GIFTS FOR MEN

Gifts for Best Man, Groomsmen/Ushers, fathers, grandfathers

A. Here too the most appropriate gifts will be keepsake mementos. The fathers and the best man generally receive gifts of greater value than the Groomsmen/Ushers, but this is not mandatory. Ideas: Personalized candles, frames or photo albums to later add your wedding pictures to, beer mugs or pilsners, toasting flutes, drinks shakers, can cooler koozies, money clips, travel cases, wood jewelry boxes, unique items reflecting their individual interests, bar sets, desk clocks, business card holders, key chains, pocket watches, Swiss Army products, high quality pens/pen sets.

IDEAS for GIFTS FOR PARENTS and GRANDPARENTS

A. Wedding mementos including a special album, picture frames and video/cd of your wedding are most appreciated by parents. They will display them and re-live your happy day every time they look at your wedding pictures.

IDEAS for GIFTS FOR FLOWERGIRL(S)/RING BEARER(S)

Ideas: Here your gift such as a coloring book set, or books about being a flower girl or ring bearer may will depend on the age of the child. However, long lasting gifts can be given to a child of any age. Ideas: Jewlry, jewelry box, silver bank, a framed photo of him/her with you on your wedding day, something relating to the child’s interest, a stuffed animal etc…

IDEAS for GIFTS FOR GUESTS

S. It has become customary to gift your wedding guests with wedding favors to thank them for helping you celebrate your big day. Actually, favors should be multi-purpose. ideas: Insert place cards in Small frames, Insert place cards in silver holders, order personalized pens and have each guest keep the pen after signing your guest book, place a dessert (Candy, nuts, cake, etc..) in a keepsake container, etc… Assign one of your attendants to announce that these are Thank you souvineers from the bride and groom.

S. We plan to give our guests memento thank you gifts.

Q. Should we also send them Thank-You notes? A. Absolutely! Each guests gave you a gift personally. Most guests put thought into what to get and purchased, wrapped and delivered it to you on or before your wedding. You must acknowledge their efforts individually with a Thank-You note.

S. We have a large wedding party. By the time we add both sets of parents, grandparents and a few other relatives, we come up with more than 10 men and more than 10 women. We are on a budget. Giving each a large gift is prohibitive but we do not want to give “cheapy” gifts.

Q. Can you help? A. We hope so! You must consider your budget when choosing your gifts but you do not necessarily have to pass up gifts you like. Always remember that a little creativity and thoughtfulness can go a long way. If you are creative you can put together gifts from the heart. Write or draw someting special and place it in a frame. find small items that will be appreciated by a sports enthusiast, stamp collectors, a gardening buffs, etc… and make little gift baskets. Your thoughtfullness will be appreciated by the recipients. Otherwise, choose two gifts – one for the men and one for women – and buy them in bulk. Many retailers will give you a price break based on quantity – IF YOU ASK THEM TO. This will help keep your costs down and save you time too. If you shop on-line Email a note to the online vendors asking if they can give you a break for buying X number of the same item. They may not offer it but some may consider doing so when requested. We at A-wedding Day do. S. Be aware that because of the way internet shopping carts are set up, the discount will not show up on your online confirmation. The vendor will have to deduct the discount when charging your credit card and will need to email you the amount actually charged. It should reflect your cost after the price reduction.

Q. When is the best time to present our thank you gifts to our parents, grandparents and wedding attendants? A. You may do so at the rehearsal dinner because of the intimate setting with your family and closest friends. Or, you may choose to present each in a private setting where you can express your gratitude to each participant individually.

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